Tuesday, May 6, 2014

How-to: Move out of your sorority house or dorm


Moving is right up there with taxes and finals - miserable and unavoidable. Over the course of my college career, I've moved either in or out of my sorority house or dorm no fewer than 12 times. The past 8 times I've been moving everything I own; at my chapter we are lucky enough to change rooms every semester, but that means we have to clear out everything from our old rooms and take it home. Packing is annoying, stressful and overwhelming- a terrible thing to do after taking your finals. But here are a twenty tips and tricks I've picked up along the way, hopefully it'll make your moving experience a bit less stressful this year!

1. Plan to pack when your roommate isn't. I learned this lesson the hard way freshmen year. Trying to pack at the same time as your roommate is the epitome of chaos. Y'all's stuff is already mixed together, trying to pack that way actually makes it worse. Plus the room you're sharing is probably closet-sized so you'll have even less room. If you are lucky enough to have suite-style living it might not be as bad, but the hallways get cluttered and dangerous quickly!

2. Pack a bag. If you're going to arrive home late or tired and won't be unloading everything that day, pack a little overnight bag with your necessities so you're not digging around for your toothbrush and a clean pair of underwear!

3. Keep all your chargers and electronics in your backpack. This is immensely helpful because everything is together, easily accessible and in a location that makes sense- not crammed in the side of a duffle or inside a coffee cup!

4. Use clear, stackable boxes. This way you can see exactly whats inside. Writing down everything you put inside as you go and then taping the list in the lid of the box is extremely helpful as well. 

5. Toss all your shoes in a bag. My favorite kind of bag to use for shoes are the plastic reusable totes because if there is any dirt on your shoes it doesn't ruin a good bag! Plus they fold up easily for storage when you're done.

6. Get some use out of your boots. Boots are big, bulky and take up a lot of room in your car (and closet!). My advice is to store odds and ends in the shaft of the boot. For example, I usually keep my umbrellas in my rain boots! For moving this year I also used them to hold shoes that didn't quite fit in my shoe tote.

7. Buy a belt hanger. I use a style from The Container Store (because my big does too) and it's life changing. For your belts that can't be hung, tuck them into your purses!

8. Store little purses in big purses. This way you only have to grab a few big bags and don't have to worry about all the messy straps

9. Have some extra, sturdy paper bags on hand. Having a few bags left from purchases really comes in handy for all the odds and ends you may come up with when you're winding down the packing. If you don't end up needing them you can just drop them in the recycling bin!

10. Don't be afraid to toss things! Have a trash can or box near by when you start packing. Old papers, broken necklaces or any general trash should be discarded immediately so its out of the way.

11. Strip your bed last. This way if you end up taking longer than you planned to pack, you can just go to sleep and finish in the morning. Driving when you're tired is really dangerous, even more so if you're like me and tend to cry as you're driving down the interstate away from your sisters, your college and another semester of fun. 

12. Keep your bedding's original packaging. If your comforter, blankets or sheets come in a reusable package keep it! It serves as a convenient way to pack up these otherwise awkward bedding items, plus most packaging is designed to move the item in its most condensed size- perfect for moving!

13. Store as much as possible. Each chapter has its own rules on extended holiday storage. if your chapter allows it and you're moving back in just a few months- leave what you can there. This includes big items like wall art, chairs, decorations or anything you won't use over the break. Just be sure to put your name on everything!

14. Find/bribe/date a boy who will help you move your boxes. Be prepared when he arrives and reward him afterwards. It's hard work but can be done in half the time with an extra set of (strong) arms!

15. Load big things first. This is the rule anytime you're loading up a car. Stack your boxes, lamps or anything else over-sized first, then pack everything else in around it. They don't say large and in charge for nothing.

16. Use a bar. Hanging clothes travel best when well, hanging. Most stores like Target or Walmart carry a bar that extends from one side of your car to the other, clipping into the dry-cleaning hooks. 

17. Use caution when carrying hanging clothes. When carrying your hanging clothes,  don't carry too many, don't try to hold anything else, and don't mix normal hangers with weird hangers. the end result would be dropping, slipping and possibly falling on your way out the door. If you have clip hangers, a belt/scarf hanger, or anything in a dry cleaning or garment bag, carry those separately

18. Load bedding last. Toss your pillows, blankets and comforters in last. They're soft and can squish into any remaining crevice left in your car. 

19. Don't forget your shower caddy! It's one of the most common things to forget because its out of sight and out of mind down the hall in the bathroom. If this is your last experience living in a communal bathroom and don't foresee using a shower caddy in the future- toss it. You'll probably not have a need for it and they get pretty gross.  

20. Stay hydrated. Seriously, don't forget to take a break every once and a while to have a sip of water and a bite of a granola bar. Moving is a marathon- not a race! 

Tip for the future: Take as much home as possible before moving out. conveniently , there are holidays usually within weeks of finals week. In the fall its Thanksgiving and in the spring its Easter. Use these trips home to your advantage- take anything you won't use those last few weeks home so you wont have to worry about them later. This Easter I took home my formal dresses, winter coats and all my sweaters. Oklahoma weather is ever-changing but I was sure I wouldn't need all my gear in early May!

XOXO

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Dear Diary, Mother's Day is on my mind


Mother's Day (May 11) is just around the corner! It's always hard to find the perfect gift for my mom because most of the things I would like to buy her are way out of my college-student budget. If you're like me, than you also don't want to waste time trying to convince your dad why your mother needs that $500 ottoman because he'll never agree. I'm a big fan of swinging by the Central Market floral department on my way home from school and picking up a bouquet, but I feel like I need to come up with something more substantial. There's got to be something in-between!
Mother and I circa 1996
Monthly product subscriptions are very hot right now, and it would be a great gift because it would little surprise to remind my mother of me while I'm away at school. The subscription is great because I wouldn't have to worry about forgetting to ship a gift myself every month! I've been receiving Birchboxes for the past two years (check out my article about them here!) and decided I would cancel my account because I'm on sample over load, and instead pay for my mother to have a subscription. The longer I thought about it though, I decided my mother might not like getting so many samples. They start to pile up then you're left with a vase (or drawer) of unused products. So I began to search for other options for monthly subscriptions. Hopefully there's something here that's just right for the sweet mommy in your life. Happy gifting!
Citrus Lane - for the mom who still has kiddos $21/month
Craft Coffee - for the mom who's a coffee lover $19.99/month
Birchbox - for the mom who loves deluxe beauty samples $10/month
UmbaBox - for your etsy-loving mom who never grew out of getting handmade gifts $23/month
Harry & David's Fruit of the Month Club - for the mom who loves the best fresh fruit $69-129/month 
Mouth's Cocktail Hour - for the mom who loves to host $1,120/year 
Love With Food - for the mom who loves organic snacks $10/month
KnitCrate - for the mom who loves to knit $26/month
Just the Right Book - for the mom who loves to read $245-$395/year+shipping 
Her Fitness Box - for the mom who likes to break a sweat $35/month

XOXO

Sunday, April 27, 2014

Dear Diary, chic iPad cases are impossible to find

This summer I am studying abroad in Turkey, then staying and traveling around Europe for a few weeks. One of the courses we are taking is Turkish Film, our program got a grant for each of us to get an iPad Air on loan from the university for half the summer. I've never been in the iPad case/cover/sleeve market before and let me tell you, its rough. I never would have imagined it would be so hard to find the perfect case!
A few issues I've come up with while online researching:
  1. I love how the sleeves look- but they seem frivolous and like it would just take up extra space in my bag. 
  2. The iPad needs to be protected, but all the 'protection' cases are bulky, heavy and seem generally too intense- but I'm a bit clumsy so I feel like I need some protection. 
  3. Folios/folders cover the front and the back, which is good, but I hate the ones with keyboards in them, but for a girl with limited space it seems foolish to take a wireless keyboard separately. 
  4. We're allowed to buy the iPad from the university at the end but I haven't decided if I'll do that so it seems foolish to spend a lot of money on it but if I don't buy it I must return it in good condition, but all the really cute ones are pricey. 
Hershel Anchor Sleeve

i-Blason Apple iPad Air Case

MoKo Apple iPad Folio

Boatman Geller iPad Folding Case
DODO Case Classic for iPad Air

GiGi New York Embossed Python iPad Case
Marc by Marc Jacobs Oliver Notebook iPad Case
Somewhere between the boring cases and the over-the-top girlie ones lies the elusive chic cases- let me know if you find one!

XOXO


Monday, April 21, 2014

Dear Diary, its Mindy Monday


Everything about Mindy Kahling is amazing. She started her fame on The Office and luckily has gotten her own show The Mindy Project. Why watch Mindy? Because she is funny, sarcastic, and relatable and gets really good looking guys to come on her show and fall in love with her. I wrote an article for our all-Greek newspaper on the star, check it out here!






She is so inspirational. 

XOXO

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Dear Diary, the Canadian Greeks are starting something big

The Get Real Movement
This video fell into my browser yesterday because TSM posted it, and it's worth the watch. Greeks at the University of Western Ontario (who knew there were Greeks in Canada?) took a big step towards shattering homophobic notions among fraternity and sorority stereotypes. They worked with The Get Real Movement, whose aim is to stop discrimination and homophobia, starting with small communities, like ours. Well our community is hardly small, there are over nine million Greeks nationwide! This video is powerful and reminds both insiders and outsiders that Greek life is all about friendship, scholarship and service no matter your orientation, ethnicity, race or any other factor. You won't ever be weak if you go Greek!

XOXO

Monday, April 7, 2014

Dear Diary, by popular request - my metallic temporary tattoos


Date parties are the perfect time to try out new things, be it a new fashion trend, a costume piece, or a cute new guy! This past weekend I opted for trying something that falls between a costume accessory and a (hopefully) rising trend: metallic temporary tattoos. I'm a huge fan of temporary tattoos because it's a fun way to be someone else for the day - and get to scrub it off later! Impulse decisions are perfectly safe:)

A few months ago I stumbled across Flash Tattoos on Pinterest (check out my new Endless Diary account here!). I became obsessed with these glittering tattoos. Purchasing them for the annual toga date party was a must because a true Greek goddess isn't complete without her jewelry, but I was always too afraid to wear any in case anything got lost. But there was no way of loosing these, and they looked amazing.


I got so many compliments and questions about them - I knew I had to share it with the world! Luckily I didn't use my whole pack this weekend and can't wait for the next occasion to wear them.

XOXO

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Dear Diary, it's toga time


One of my favorite social events of the year has finally arrived - Lambda Chi's Foga (foam+toga) date party. Personally, I hate the foam but it's worth it to get to saunter around in togas all night like the Greeks that we are. 

Each year when this event rolls around, the freshmen freak, the boys stock up, and the Hobby Lobby workers can look at you and know exactly how much fabric you need for your toga. There are several ways to go about dressing yourself for this event, but the two best choices are using a pillow case, or buying a piece of fabric from your local craft store. The pillow case is more practical - it' won't budge, fall apart (or off) and is very simple to make. All you need is a king sized pillow case, scissors, and some rope for your belt. Simply cut the corner of the pillow case off at an angle, then cut an arm hole, try it on for size, tie your belt and you're done! 
Now if you want to go the more traditional route, like me, I would check out this video. It's the easiest to understand and all the options are cute (except the bikini option - you'd be better off in an actual bikini and sarong). Most girls need about two yards of fabric and three yards for boys. 
Quick Toga Tutorial
Last year I bought a faux flower vine from the floral department and hot glued it together, making a really cute crown. Other people have used gold wire or just leafy vines and both look great. I advise considering your skin tone, hair color, likelihood of spilling a drink on yourself and what colors your best friends are wearing before selecting your toga color. You'll be taking pictures all night and want to look your best! This is one of the few times when selecting clothing that color is pretty much the only variable so choose wisely!

No matter what you put on your body, make sure you are covered up underneath with spandex shorts and some kind of nude bralette or bandeau because if your costume falls apart- you don't want to accidentally put on a show!

XOXO